Hey, You!!

          Hey, you!! Yes, you. Hahaha.. I remember the last time I left you. Just let you go without any words. And you came just a moment right after I got my new partner in life. Yeah, just now. Well, hey.. Why you just come such a way? You are reaaallyy clooossee to my -now- partner!! HELL!! :-D

           I never thought you would come after such a loooong time I just threw you away. And you feel soo disappointed by me, right? Of course, you have waited for times. :-)

          Now you have found your new 'life'. I don't know how lovely 'words' for you. But "Dahlia" after "Intan" is sooo sweet. Hehehe.. Your style just like my 'life' now. I don't want getting back to you, just wanna say: Congratulations, my dear hero. Start your new life yaa.. ^_^

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Me + God = Enough

Unless you want more than what you acquire, more than what you have, more than what you obsess.

If you need more, just call: MIRACLE.
It's upon God, right? ;-)

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That's All We No Look at

See picture below:

Do you think it's all the girls want?

NO!!

          Life is not only fucked up with those glamour things and what so called as "position". Once you want the glory on your hand, forever it won't. Because life is IN your own hand. Just how you could realize it without breaking your own hand.

          I do want to be a princess of my own life. I do want to be a duchess of my own pretty small clean and warm house. I do want to be good lady to my great great grandchildren -later-. But, I do also want to have a man who has a high responsibility of his own. Knowing what is right for him, and furthermore for his family - as well as the society -.

         I do not live in a kingdom time. I do not want to jump on those decades where the wars existed everywhere, in which people look for POSITION. I just want to live happily. I just want to give birth and raise my children in a peaceful night or in a warm afternoon. I just want to live happily, with you -my dear partner whom I hardly find his soul these days.

          It's pretty simple. Don't take those people's saying you don't have a dam to pursue your dreams. Don't ever let those people stop you playing with your way out. Just find your own egress.




Dear, my lovely partner.., please do recognize: you are more than what you do these days.

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Mencukupkan: Tuhan, Keplak Ia dengan Sandal-Mu

           Possessive, maunya menang sendiri, maunya diperhatikan terus, manja, tapi sok tegar, itu semua sifat-sifat yang tidak baik. Ditambah lagi dengan sifat keras yang sudah mendarah daging.

          Akhir-akhir ini aku mulai gila, capek, dengan segala sesuatu yang berbau "Nusantara". Atau yang minimal digaungkan dengan kalimat --> Persiapan Pembangunan Nusantara. Capek, karena memang konsepan mereka tidak jelas. Arahnya kemana juga ndak jelas. Dan yang makin bikin capek itu: My partner is involved there!!
       

          Aku nggak tau musti gimana. Berkata apapun yang kutahu juga percuma. Selalu ada alasan untuknya membolak-balikkan apa yang nyata dan tampak. Sudah bisa dipastikan; ia hanya belum bisa menerima kenyataan hari ini.

          Memang seharusnya aku berhenti mencampuri urusan hidupnya. Memang seharusnya aku berhenti mengontrol apa yang ia kehendaki. Memang seharusnya aku mencukupkan. Tapi, bukankah seharusnya pula ia mencukupkan?



Tuhan, keplak ia dengan sandal-Mu. Tolong. T.T

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Selalu Ada Tempat untukmu Pulang

           Perempuan itu makhluk yang sungguh lucu. Tak mau disakiti, tapi memilih untuk diam saat sakit. Terus, yang laki-laki bisa bantu apa? :-D

Dududuh, gak kebayang. Ngurus rumah, ketambahan kerja, ditinggal kerja, nyoba ngerawat tubuh dan penampilan, belum sakit pre-mens tiap bulan, belum pas hamil, belum pas melahirkan.., and finally, ditinggal selingkuh.

Well, life is simply like this. Tersenyumlah.. Tersenyumlah. Perempuan ini selalu memberimu tempat untuk berpulang, wahai lelakiku.


Selalu ada maaf, untukmu.

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Sebait Syair dari UJE Kepada Sang Bidadarinya

Isteriku.
Aku ingin tenang.

Biarkan aku tenang menghadap Khalik-ku,
Sudahi isakmu isteriku,
Aku tidaklah semu isteriku,
Bukankah berulangkali dulu kita membaca Hadist Rasulullah Shalallohu 'Alayhi Wasallam bahwa yang dinamai sabar itu adalah saat pertama kamu diberi ALLAH ujian?

Maka berhentilah menangis,
Suruhlah orang-orang itu untuk berhenti menanyakan kamu perihal suamimu,
Himbaulah mereka yang tidak mengerti itu untuk menjauhkan kamera dari wajahmu.
Itu membuat kamu dan membuat aku tidak tenang istriku.

Sampaikan terimakasih suamimu kepada mereka semua,
Siapa saja yang ikhlas berdoa untuk kebaikan aku disetiap waktu,
Cukuplah itu buatku.

Ketika kamu rindu,
Lihatlah anak-anakku,
Ketika kamu ingin kelak bertemu denganku,
Rawatlah dan didiklah anakku,
Berikan mereka tali buhul ALLAH,
Ikatkan mereka dengan itu,
Tuntunlah agama anak-anakku,
Seperti apa kehendak aku dahulu.

Isteriku..
Maafkan aku,
Maafkan telah meninggalkan beban dan amanah yang sangat berat disisimu.
Tidaklah ALLAH menimpakan sesuatu diluar batas kesanggupanmu.

ALLAH Maha Mengetahui.

Kamu itu mampu..

Ku nanti kamu dan anak-anakku dipintu syurga.


Aamiin.

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Peran Bahasa dalam Berbudaya bagi Indonesia

Apa jadinya jika generasi muda Indonesia bermental ikut-ikutan; berani karena teman-temannya berani, mundur karena teman-temannya mundur? Bisa sangat disayangkan jika pemuda Indonesia yang terkenal dengan kegigihannya dalam menanggung setumpuk mata pelajaran saat SD, SMP, SMA, menjadi individu yang bahkan tidak tahu untuk apa sejatinya belajar, tanggung jawab, dan hal-hal penting lainnya. Krisis identitas sedang melanda.

Ciyus? Miapah?

Krisis Identitas dan Ciri-cirinya

            Segelintir istilah pada penutup paragraf di atas memang sekilas tampak keren, meskipun tidak diketahui secara pasti hal ihwal pembentukan kata-kata tersebut. Namun demikian, istilah asing itu cepat sekali merebak pada lingkungan sekitar. Diakui atau tidak, pemuda Indonesia sekarang dapat dikatakan sebagai generasi ikut-ikutan. Mulai dari pola bertutur dalam lingkungan masyarakat, cara berSMS, menulis singkatan, hingga meng-update status di jejaring sosial, remaja saat ini cenderung meninggalkan siapa jati diri kita sebenarnya.

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SINGLISH: The Phenomenon of Linguistics in Singapore

Summary from: http://www.hawaii.edu/satocenter/langnet/definitions/singlish.html

            Singapore is situated in South-east Asia. Since long time ago strategic place of Singapore has attracted western people to come. History noted down that British conquered Singapore that they took control in that country. Since then, the colonial government encouraged people to come to the Singapore. As the result, even to date, Chinese ethnics were the largest community in Singapore, followed by Indian and Malay.

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Analysis of the Poem “From Pamphilia to Amphilantus”

A. Poem

Original version

From Pamphilia to Amphilantus

When night's blacke Mantle could most darknesse prove,
And sleepe (deaths Image) did my senses hyre,
From Knowledge of my selfe, then thoughts did move
Swifter then those, most swiftnesse neede require.
In sleepe, a Chariot drawne by wing'd Desire,
I saw; where sate bright Venus Queene of Love,
And at her feete her Sonne, still adding Fire
To burning hearts, which she did hold above,
But one heart flaming more then all the rest,
The Goddesse held, and put it to my breast,
"Deare Sonne now shoot," said she: "thus must we winne;"
He her obey'd, and martyr'd my poore heart.
I waking hop'd as dreames it would depart,
Yet since, O me, a Lover I have beene.

( www.allpoetry.com )

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My Mistress’ Eyes are Nothing Like the Sun - poem -- analysis

In this sonnet Shakespeare compares his mistress' eyes to the sun. He makes the case that her eyes are very different from the sun. Though the sun is beautiful and glowing, it has little in common with his mistress' eyes. Though they may be beautiful, reality is that they can't be compared to the sun. In short, the eyes are nothing if compared with the sun.

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